I was driving the long solitary highway to Alaska when the guy in the passenger seat asked if I knew Fountains of Wayne. Was that a statue? Was that a waterfall? It was a band, he explained, named after a store in New Jersey. That guy was not my boyfriend, but I hadn’t given up . . . Read More
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April 6, 2020
Someone to Love
On Fountains of Wayne, coronavirus, and the kick drum of the human heart
March 26, 2020
Drinking in a global pandemic
Apocalypse is a great reason to get drunk, but it's also a very good reason to stay sober
A few years ago, I was talking with a couple female writers about what we’d do during a zombie apocalypse. One claimed she’d be good with a sword, and she clasped her hands and pantomimed slicing through the air. The other said she could forage. She could scour the cabinets and make dinner from any . . . Read More
January 17, 2020
A personal history of Taco Cabana
When a little piece of your landscape disappears
The lights inside Taco Cabana had gone dark. It wasn’t even 7pm, and the neon of Lower Greenville was in high throb, Christmas lights still wrapped around trees in early January, so the darkness of that restaurant was conspicuous, like the street was missing a tooth. I slowed down just enough to make out the . . . Read More
January 3, 2020
The warp of beauty
On Texas women, the shifting sands of plastic surgery, and a complicated relationship to our own bodies
A young woman named Vickie Lynn Hogan went to high school about seventy miles away from me in a small town called Mexia, Texas. She was seven years older, though I like to imagine I passed her at the mall one day, or that we stood side by side at the makeup counter of Dillard’s, . . . Read More
October 1, 2019
Five short stories about ‘Hustlers’
I'm surprised how much I liked this movie I didn't even want to see
I I didn’t want to see Hustlers, but my friend gave me two options: Hustlers, or some movie called Peanut Butter Falcon*, so you see I had no real choices. The theater was packed, mostly women in their twenties and thirties, but a fair number of men. A lot of couples, or guys with female . . . Read More
September 8, 2019
Burn cigarettes
On a habit I do not miss, except every once in a while when I do
This morning I saw two people smoking on a back patio. The image startled me. Of course millions of people smoke old-fashioned cigarettes, I know this. But the ritual of the stolen smoke, the camaraderie of the picnic table — at 9:30am, no less — was like a frame lifted from an earlier era. As . . . Read More
August 21, 2019
Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom
A cabin, a canyon, a cat. Part 2 of a Panhandle road trip.
I drove to Palo Duro Canyon, because I had to go somewhere, but I couldn’t go far. I was on deadline for my book, due in September, and the more extravagant trip I had envisioned — out to the northern rim of the Grand Canyon, the quieter and more profound side of the great gash . . . Read More
June 18, 2019
The Big Texan
Where heroes are made, and no one leaves hungry: Part 1 of a Panhandle road trip
I’m seated in a wooden booth with a vinyl tablecloth in a cow-hide pattern, and as my eyes trace the perimeter of the enormous banquet hall, I count twenty-six animal heads. “What can I get ya?” My waitress wears a straw cowboy hat and a plaid Western snap shirt. “I’ll have the chicken-fried steak,” . . . Read More
March 11, 2019
Uncertain, Texas
My cabin in the woods experience
A few years ago, I threw my clothes in the bright green suitcase with the broken zipper, slung my guitar in the back seat, and drove to Uncertain, Texas. I had searched for cabin get-aways within a few hours’ drive from my home in Dallas, places like Broken Bow and Beavers Bend and Turner Falls, . . . Read More
February 6, 2019
Modern Romances
What do women want?
I was wandering around an antiques store in Checotah, Oklahoma (home of Carrie Underwood) when I came across this magazine. $10,000 in cash prizes. Love at 40. OK, I’m listening. I’d never heard of Modern Romances magazine, but I picked up the copy, which was sheathed in protective plastic, and I searched for the issue . . . Read More